When writing my Sunday blog, there was something I didn’t mention—or maybe I left it out on purpose so I could save it for today 🤷🏼♀️…
That is: Age should not matter when bringing dreams to life.
We may not have as much time to get things done as we once did, and we may not get everything we want… but—and it’s a big but—we can still make some, possibly even most, of our dreams come true. Depending on what they are, maybe even all of them.
For example…
I’ve always loved to travel.
I’ve done a little traveling around the U.S. and to Mexico, and I hope—no, I plan—to do more. I’m even getting my passport. I’ve sent the intention out to the universe, saying: “I want to travel more of the world.” Look out Italy, Greece, Germany, Ireland, Scotland, Greenland, Sweden, Norway… you’re on my list (maybe even my “move to” list 🤷🏼♀️).
I loved drawing as a child but didn’t believe I was good enough. Well, now I’m drawing, painting, and creating all kinds of art projects. Some speak to a cause, others just call to me.
I was a seminar speaker’s assistant for a short time, and as I watched and listened, I realized I wanted to do what they were doing. People asked, “Why aren’t you speaking?” I knew the information. I could have done it. But (back to Sunday’s post) I didn’t have the confidence. I won’t repeat the script I used to tell myself whenever someone—or even my inner voice—asked that question. Lack of confidence took it’s toll.
Now, I’m a Distinguished Toastmaster.
I’ve facilitated workshops and plan to do so again in the next year or two. I’m even open to being a guest speaker.
I wanted to be a writer and create my own worlds.
I’ve done that—and I will continue to do that. I have two children’s books published, with more on the way. I’m currently writing my first novel, which will soon be published. And I have several other novels, novellas, and memoirs waiting their turn to come to life.
These are just four examples of dreams or goals I’ve made happen—and am still working on.
My art, writing, and even facilitating workshops only truly came to life after I turned 50.
I published my first book after turning 60.
Do I feel an urgency to do more and do it faster?
Hell yes.
Am I?
Not really.
Why?
Because… I deal with procrastination.
Sometimes I have imposter thoughts.
My health isn’t what I’d like it to be.
And honestly? I want to do so many things all at once. (Not to mention the characters in my head all talking at the same time!) That kind of energy can be overwhelming—even paralyzing for some. For me, it’s more like… stalling out.
Some have told me, “Pick one thing and just do that.”
I’ve tried. But that doesn’t always work for me.
What has helped is making lists:
- A daily to-do list
- A weekly to-do list
- And, now and then, a monthly list
I don’t do the whole “Where do you see yourself in 10 years?” thing either. I prefer thinking in 1–5-year increments. Lists give me something visual I can check off, which helps me see that I am getting things done. Do I veer off the list – duh, big YES. But with the lists it is easier to get back on track. Remember to often make it fun and don’t be hard on yourself if something doesn’t get done. That’s what tomorrow is for.
Also, being part of a goals group helps. Accountability matters.
Sometimes their check-ins annoy me—but it’s the kind of annoying I appreciate because it’s moving me forward. They help me focus on the things I want, need, and desire—for me. Not for anyone else.
That’s a key takeaway:
Do it for you.
Not for your family.
Not for your friends.
Not for your coworkers.
Not for your spouse.
Just. For. You.
You’re the one who matters when it comes to making your dreams, goals, wishes, and desires a reality.
No one else can do it for you.
So—what are you going to do for you?
Today? Tomorrow? This week? Next?
As a famous shoe company (you know NIKE) once said:
“Just do it.”
Let go of the fears, the self-doubt, the negative voices—and do it.
If it fails? So what.
You gave it a shot.
Maybe something better will come from the experience.
At the very least, you learned something. For me, the lesson is usually that whatever didn’t work… probably wasn’t truly for me. But I never would have known that if I hadn’t tried.
Now, I’ll leave you with your thoughts.
Think about what you want to do for you.
If you want to share, please do.
If you’re stuck or need someone to bounce ideas off—or if you feel like your family and friends won’t get it—hey, you have my email. I’ll help if I can.
But please…
do something for you.
Till next time… may your moments be filled with hugs, love, laughter, and blessings.
Later💕
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